Couples Who Care

Meet young married couples who got their butts off their Pottery Barn couches and decided to make a big difference in their local communities and around the globe.

Before you can say, "We just don't have the time!" listen to their inspiring stories and see how easy it is to get involved -- even if it's just a little.

Kristin & Tony
Married: March, 10 2007
Hometown: St. Louis, MO
Good deed: Foster stray dogs

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Kristin and Tony Gumper weren’t ready to get a new pet after their beloved Boston Terrier passed away, so they decided to fill the void in their home by fostering abandoned pups. They work with a local grassroots organization (strayrescue.org) that gets dogs off the streets and socializes and trains stray dogs with the hope that they can be adopted.

Getting involved
“My dad raised puppies when I was a child, and I knew this would be a fun adventure for me and Tony. We are helping dogs that ordinarily wouldn’t have a chance and connecting people with lifelong companions.”

Defining moment
“I was five years old when I got my first dog, and I remember how wonderful it was to see a puppy under the Christmas tree. Watching little kids interact with their new dog really hits home.”

Growing closer
“I learned that Kristin loves dogs more than she loves me! She’s amazed at how much I care about something that is so important to her.”

Teamwork
“We devote our time to the dogs that live with us every night and all weekend. It’s part of our life, and we love having a dog in the house—otherwise it feels so quiet.”

Reward
“We get to see an unfortunate animal find a loving home and to help families find great pets…and it’s a great trial-run if you want to eventually make an addition to your family…whether that will be a puppy or a new baby.”

Leigh Ann & Matt
Married: July 23, 2005
Hometown: Clifton, NJ
Good deed: Habitat for Humanity (habitat.org)

While living in Maine, Leigh Ann Tully worked as a volunteer manager for Habitat for Humanity. She visited high school and churches to encourage children and teens to help build homes for families in need. Matt, who has a construction background, was the site leader.

Getting involved
“When we lived in Oregon, we volunteered at a youth-led organization, so we knew we wanted to work with children and teens.”

Defining moment
“I was teaching children about the factors that go into the housing crisis when a boy bitterly asked why he should care since he and his mother were homeless. I realized how terrible it is for families who can’t afford housing and it brought everything into perspective.”

Growing closer
“I learned that Matt is a really good leader. He was very committed and patient when teaching people who have never done construction before.”

Teamwork
“I worked about 55 hours a week, and Matt and I helped out on the job sites on the weekends. We did everything from hammering nails to putting up drywall. Once our daughter is older, I will be able to dedicate more time to volunteering again.”

Reward
“It’s touching to watch a family move into their new home and know that this wasn’t a handout. They worked so hard to get it completed, and the whole community came together to help.”

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