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Oh, my goodness -- please don't buy into that myth! Men on the small side are often kings when it comes to foreplay, because they try to make up for what they think they're lacking. Even though you say it's fine, you can make it even better. Choose positions where you can create the most friction: Try you on top with your legs between his, and grind your clitoris against his pubic bone. Or place him behind in good old-fashioned doggy style -- in this position, even a small man can reach your G-spot if you tilt your hips right up toward him.

Make sure you boost his confidence by showing him all the things you love him to do to you with his mouth and tongue, hands and penis. Girlfriends will say all sorts of things about size and the like, but at the end of the day what's most important is that you and your husband share your own style of sexual enjoyment. Some women are "size queens," but usually I find that they're quite shallow when it comes to relationships. Finally, well-endowed men are often self-conscious because in the past they might have caused a partner to experience pain on penetration -- so they often have as many hang-ups as men on the smaller side.

Nestpert: Dr. Pam Spurr, author of Make Love All Night & Talk to Him in the Morning and Naughty Tricks and Sexy Tips: A Couple's Guide to Uninhibited Sexual Pleasure

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