Q.
My husband gives me oral sex -- begrudgingly. Is there anything I can do to entice him?
A.
Sometimes men worry about the taste. Invite him in for a sensual shower where you both end up fresh as a daisy, and then towel each other dry. Encourage him to nuzzle your tummy and between your thighs. Drizzle his favorite syrup or sauce (chocolate, caramel, marshmallow, etc.) on yourself so he can lap it up gently. Keep well-trimmed and waxed so he can see what he's doing! And if this technique isn't exactly to your liking, gently coax him to perform to your specifications by saying things like, "That feels great," or "I'd love it if you could…"
Nestpert: Dr. Pam Spurr, author of Make Love All Night & Talk to Him in the Morning and Naughty Tricks and Sexy Tips: A Couple's Guide to Uninhibited Sexual Pleasure
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