First rule of club sexy, you do not talk about club sexy…except to each other.
Your bedroom is the clubhouse. You don’t need to lock the door, but a “Member’s Only” sign is encouraged. Schedule meetings and set the rules. Once you are there, you might want to read the rules out loud. They can be sexy, literal, or a bit of both. For example: “1. No mention of work, children, or stress. 2. Dole out a compliment at the beginning, one at the end, and four interspersed randomly. 3. After the rules are read you must kiss for a minimum of five minutes.” Those are a few samples. We’ll leave it to you to come up with the rest.
Creating this “club” type of camaraderie will make your “meetings” feel like escapes away from the stresses of daily life. After all, you would never miss your book club! This is like that, but naked.
Nestperts: Joselin Linder and Elena Donovan Mauer, authors of Have Sex Like You Just Met (Adams Media, December). Read more at their blog.
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