Pencils ready, students!

Carving out time for sex can be really hot, especially if you exchange itemized itineraries via text or email while you and your man are still toiling away at your respective offices (just be sure to use personal email accounts -- never send anything risque over company email!). Over time, these meetings will become easier and easier to schedule. But if your calendar is crowded, and this is your first ever sex meeting, start by booking just one. If you miss (or move) too many of these appointments, the entire idea will lose its power. So set the meeting and make a point of keeping it.

Nestperts: Joselin Linder and Elena Donovan Mauer, authors of Have Sex Like You Just Met (Adams Media, December). Read more at their blog.

-- Joselin Linder & Elena Donovan Mauer

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