Switch it up. Try having sex at a different time or in a different place.
Step out of your sex routine. If you normally do it at night, make advances toward your guy in the morning. Or better yet, plan a romantic “lunch date” at home between the sheets. By changing something as simple as the time of day -- or location -- of your sexual encounters you can inspire creativity and enthusiasm.
Nestperts: Joselin Linder and Elena Donovan Mauer, authors of Have Sex Like You Just Met (Adams Media, December). Read more at their blog.
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