Seriously, lay it on thick! Hold his hand while you’re watching a movie. Grab him from behind while he’s doing the dishes.

Shower him with compliments. While you’re out with friends, give him sexy secret looks from across the table. You’ll not only give him some sexual confidence he can use in the bedroom later, but you’ll remind yourself why you fell in lust with him in the first place. You’ll be flashing back to your first few dates, when the sexual tension was high. Ready to advance to the next level? Whip out some dirty talk when he least expects it!

Nestperts: Joselin Linder and Elena Donovan Mauer, authors of Have Sex Like You Just Met (Adams Media, December). Read more at their blog.

-- Joselin Linder & Elena Donovan Mauer

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