Turn each other on by laughing together. Though it might sound funny - laughter can ignite passion in and out of the bedroom.

Be silly with your guy. Go see a comedian -- or put on some music and have a dance party in your living room. Giggle to your heart’s content. Lightening the mood will help you lighten up about sex. Plus, laughing releases endorphins, and endorphins make you feel happ —and sexy too!

Nestperts: Joselin Linder and Elena Donovan Mauer, authors of Have Sex Like You Just Met (Adams Media, December). Read more at their blog.

-- Joselin Linder & Elena Donovan Mauer

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