Rent a sensual movie and act it out together.

Rent a movie with steamy sex scenes -- or go for something far dirtier -- and watch it with your guy. Pay-per-view options are painless to rent, or just go online together and browse around. Relax! This isn't the old days, when porn meant a visit to a dirty store. And with online options, you'll never have to worry about your mother-in-law finding the flix. Feeling brave? Try some of the moves you see on camera. Not there yet? Watch on your own and get inspiration for later on.

Nestperts: Joselin Linder and Elena Donovan Mauer, authors of Have Sex Like You Just Met (Adams Media, December). Read more at their blog.

-- Joselin Linder & Elena Donovan Mauer

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