A little healthy competition can expand your sexual horizons.

Sex games are a fantastic way to inspire you and your partner to try out a few moves you might otherwise be too unwilling -- or too unimaginative -- to try. Think about it. You wouldn’t want to lose all those points (and perhaps your blouse) just because you're scared of a little edible body paint, would you? Sex games also open up the lines of communication, and that can definitely up the intimacy factor.

Nestperts: Joselin Linder and Elena Donovan Mauer, authors of Have Sex Like You Just Met (Adams Media, December). Read more at their blog.

-- Joselin Linder & Elena Donovan Mauer

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