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10 Hot-Hot-Hot Date Ideas

Looking for creative date ideas? Well, you've come to the right place! Here are 10 sexy (and fun!) dates that you'll both be sure to enjoy.

Make Each Other Melt
You can’t get sexier than sharing strawberries (use chocolate-dipped ones -- they’re an aphrodisiac) and champagne in bed.

Get Limber for Later
Get up early on a weekend morning and take a hot yoga (Vinyasa or Bikram) class. Sharing a new experience together will bring you closer. Bonus: Your bodies will be primed for a hot “private” session later.

Steam up the Kitchen
Cook dinner together using erotic ingredients that stimulate the libido, like oysters, figs, and avocados (to name a few). Light candles and open a bottle of your favorite wine. Chances are you won’t make it to dessert.

Sizzle at a Spa
Treat yourselves to a day of double relaxation. You can book almost any spa treatment together (hello, hot stone massage!). Want a recession-proof spa day? Here’s how to get a steamy massage going at home.

Feel Warm and Fuzzy
Get your butts off the sofa and do some volunteer work together. It’s a great way to bond while doing something worthwhile. Carry that euphoric, feel-good vibe home and get charitable between the sheets.

Create a VIP Club
Who needs a bar to dance? Load your iPod with sexy tunes, from Kanye to Katy Perry, and hook it up to the speakers in your pad. Bonus points for hanging a disco ball (find these cheap at Walmart, Target, or your local party store) to get a club-like vibe.

Share a Hot Shower
Who cares if you can only fit one person in there? Lather each other up with some vanilla bath gel and you won't mind being in such close quarters.

Create a Cozy Retreat
We all made blanket forts when we were kids -- now re-create it with a sexy twist. Line the floor of your living room with mountains of pillows and watch a sexy flick together.

Bundle Up (and Take It Off)
Challenge your mate to two-person strip poker. It’s guaranteed to be hotter than the group version since you’ll be in the buff in no time. Add a twist: Whoever keeps their clothes on the longest gets to call the shots during the postgame (wink, wink).

Suds It Up
Make a date in the driveway and get dirty washing down your cars. C'mon, you know the car could use a fresh coat of wax. Plus you + him + soap suds + water = sexy.

Try getting dirty with these fun bedroom games.

-- The Nest Editors

Jan 20, 2010

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We've already tried the cozy retreat! We put in Good Luck Chuck and had a hard time making it through the movie! ;)

by KariL22 on Dec 27, 2009

My hubby and I take a shower together almost every morning...it is the only time that we are truly alone! No cell phones, no computer. We actually talk!

by Pinkwoman on Jan 03, 2010

We LOVE taking showers / baths together :) I agree with pinkwoman... it is a great time to talk. no distractions. :)

by CrystalAnn7985 on Feb 17, 2010

I love taking showers w/ my husband!! And I might try the volunteer work things sounds nice..

by bsmerelda@yahoo.com on Feb 17, 2010

We have "fort nights" where we build a fort in the living room, put a mattress down on the ground, and watch movies all day and night.

by meghan2105 on Feb 17, 2010

Did the hot showers, Tried the spa at home, tried the cooking in the kitchen and none of it led to hot and steamy showers. Hmmm. . . may be we are doing something wrong. LOL!

by jadeorchid21 on Feb 17, 2010

Ha ha!! Really warmed me up just reading the tips you gave! We do the shower thing already, but the Suds It Up does sound fun. Only problem, we own three cars!! Two may not get done. Ha Ha!!!

by meisha009 on Feb 18, 2010

My husband and I have done volunteer work together and it was a great experience. He wasn't happy when I volunteered him to help my Junior League plant trees at the local park, but he really enjoyed himself and now understands why I do it!

by aj_jankowski on Feb 22, 2010

Agreed shower/bath times are the only times you're truly ALONE! :) Hubby and I shower together on the weekends/days off-- and sometimes we'll wash each others hair. When else can you get a really good scrub down your back?! :)

by tiglily on Feb 22, 2010

My hubby & I decided to spend last New Years Eve at home, alone. We pulled out the sofa bed and had our very own slumber party counting down until midnight right there in the living room!! One of the funnest "dates" we have ever had...completely cheezy but so much fun!!

by kristel521 on Aug 02, 2010

Instead of watching a movie try reading a steamy book. My hunny loves laying next to me and listening to me tell him a story and letting his imagination run wild. :)

by JennButts1 on Nov 05, 2010

we have 2 kids, so after we put them to bed nice and early around 7 or 8, we make a midnight treat, pick out a good movie, get out a bunch of pillows and blankets and have our own little cozy retreat, and we almost can never finish the movie!

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by jackpetr on Dec 16, 2011