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Feel like the fire’s gone out? We asked users on TheNest.com for advice on how they keep the passion in their relationships alive. If you feel like you’ve been in a rut lately, try one of these sexy tips to shake things up in (and out of) the bedroom.

Things to do in anticipation…

“Get a Brazilian wax!” --CHI-WINE-LADY

“Have boudoir photos taken. After I did and I showed them to my husband, it definitely spiced things up a bit.” --DEVONSTILES

“Give yourself time to feel sexy. Work out two days a week; get a facial, pedicure and your hair done. I know that makes me feel better!” --TOOTHFAIRIE

“Send sexy texts during the day.” --CHEMBRITT

“Make an appointment to have sex. Treat it like it’s as important as going to work or to the doctor.” --WALKERB4

Things to do during the main event…

“Sneak into the shower the next time he’s in there!” --ODDLER09

“Make noise! I’m usually a pretty big screamer. I bet our neighbors really hate us.” --ANDY’SHOMEGIRL

“Do a little strip tease for him before you take a shower together. The first time I decided to do this, I was so embarrassed, but after I saw the way he reacted, I felt like a goddess.” --ELIZABETHSPEARL

“Role play. You’ll laugh and get embarrassed, but, hey, it just adds to the fun!” --PENGUINKISSES06

“Try out different places outside the bedroom! Couch, shower, table, etc., all work wonders and help when you’re in a rut!” --MICHELE315

Chat about sex & romance with other Nesties.

-- The Nest Editors

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