Q.
My husband is jealous of a male coworker I’m friends with. How can I convince him he has nothing to worry about?
A.
It’s perfectly normal for him to feel a little jealousy. If you’re sure this isn’t a serious resentment problem with larger issues at play, think about whether you’re doing anything (intentionally or not) to contribute to your husband’s unease. Are you often telling funny stories of how charming your work buddy is? If so, tone it down. You might think it’s good to keep your husband in the loop, but you could also be subconsciously doing it to get his attention. Maybe your husband has a point. Are you sure your coworker’s feelings are as platonic as yours? If the situation is iffy, create some distance. Once you’ve made adjustments (or not), suppress your hubby’s green-eyed monster. Remind him that you’re married because you love one another and because you trust each other.
-- The Nest Editors
Oct 01, 2008
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