Q.
My boyfriend asks me to leave our house when he has guys' night. I'm totally offended—it's my house too! Should I stay or go?
A.
The real question is, why do you want to stay? If trust issues are causing you to push back when he demands dude time, it's time for a serious talk. If that's not it, then by all means, scram. It's cool that he's making time for friends; take the opportunity to do the same. Grab dinner with a friend, or maybe even organize a recurring night that coordinates with his guys' night in. Having a life outside of your relationship will only make it stronger.
Jan 19, 2011