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Every marriage is bound to encounter a few bumps along the road, especially when you're first starting out. We're here to help you out with solutions to couples issues and common newlywed arguments. First, find out about the tried-and-true stuff your parents probably wish they'd known. We've sorted out the newlywed "rules" you can ignore from the relationship mistakes you need to avoid. Learn the right way to handle a fight and the solutions to the most common newlywed arguments. We've also got help for couples issues that are specific to the modern marriage. For example, the four rules of Facebook for couples, how to deal when you're married to a metrosexual, and handling coworker crushes. You can also read our expert Q&A for dealing with all kinds of couples issues. Find tips on making friends as a couple, managing work stress as a pair, and avoiding common newlywed arguments about stuff like cleaning and entertaining. We'll help you solve issues with everyone -- your honey, your couple friends, your in-laws -- and find solutions that work in every part of your life, from the bedroom to the office. From whether it's okay to tell friends about your issues to breaking out of a sex rut, we've got you covered. And don't forget your fellow Nesties! We've pulled together lists of real couple gripes and likes, Nesties' marriage secrets, and their most ridiculous fights -- you're sure to relate to something! Or find even more sympathetic ears with our relationships message board.

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5 Ways Snooping on Your Spouse Can Kill You

Think reading his email is harmless as long as he doesn’t find out? Think again. The person you’re hurting most may be yourself.

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The laptop is sitting there, unattended, with your hubby's Gmail account open on the screen. You trust him, but it’s just so tempting. Nothing will happen if you just sneak a peek, right? Wrong, says Jeffrey M. Schwartz, MD. Not only would you break your spouse’s trust if he found out you were digging through his personal correspondence, but snooping behaviors -- like reading his texts or going through his pockets and drawers -- can actually cause serious physical and psychological damage to the one doing the snooping: you. Here are some of the health drawbacks of snooping.

By Kristine Solomon

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