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“My fiance’s parents are very old-fashioned, so we didn’t tell them we were basically living together before we got married. One morning, my future mother-in-law called at 5 a.m. Pacific Time (she was on the East Coast), and I picked up the phone. She remarked, ‘Wow, did you get there early to bring Steve breakfast before work? That’s so nice of you!’ and then proceeded to have a normal conversation with me as if she hadn’t just woken us up! We just let her think that whole breakfast scenario was the case…” -- Nancy

“My mother-in-law got my sister-in-law (who's single) a sexy night gown for Christmas. She got me (a newlywed) a bathrobe!” -- Rachel

“My mother-in-law calls my husband every night to ask him what he's had for dinner. Then she asks him if he liked it. Blah!! Did I mention that she gave a four-minute toast at our wedding basically calling me a ‘B’: ‘Well, as a mother of five boys, I'm just not used to having girls in my life. I'm just not used to having girls around. I'm not used to the attitudes and everything that comes along with having a girl. At the end of the day, let's just say we KNOW who's boss (implying herself).’” -- Catherine

“Not so much of a physical invasion, but more a financial one. One day, we got an out-of-the-blue phone call from my mother-in-law. She was calling to inform us that she’d just decided that her four children were going to chip in and send them on a Caribbean cruise. Our share was going to be $800, preferably paid within the next three days. She wanted to book the trip ASAP. Gawd.” -- Margo

"My mother-in-law insists that we celebrate my husband's and my anniversary together and gives us a cheesy framed photo of us as a gift. It’s like, excuse me, we were hoping for one event that didn’t revolve around anyone but the two of us.” -- Emily

“A few months after we were married (in 2005), our in-laws came to visit. We have steam radiator heat, which isn't nearly as common in the Midwest where the in-laws live. The radiators can be very loud and tend to hiss and spit out steam when they start up. In the middle of the night, my father-in-law came barging into our room because he thought that the radiator was about to explode. Not realizing that we have steam heat and not hot water heat, he thought it was smoke coming out of the radiator. The best part about the story is that he wouldn't look at us (in bed) and kept his arm covering his eyes the entire time, as if we were 'doing something" at 5 in the morning!” -- Jill

-- Lauren Le Vine

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I got married just a month shy of my 22nd Birthday.7 months into marriage, my husband and I found out we were expecting. Shocked but happy, we were thrilled with the news! However when we told my parents,they asked my DH " Why type of Bc were you using and how often did you use it" " Did the condom break or something...Talk about PERSONAL!" They went on for a few minutes about the Proper us of BC so we don't get any more "Unplanned surprises". Talk about nerve..Now that were 3 months pregnant my parents still make comments..Sherry

by sherry831 on Apr 18, 2009

My fiance and I are scared to tell his parents we're getting married. Joshua and I are both practicing Catholic and his family is not. His mother is pressuring us to get married in the warm weather on some beach... not to mention, he'll still be in university when we get married. She hates that. She believes money is the most important thing in life. I on-the-other-hand want badly to be married to the person I love, I don't think she realizes, I'm not marrying her (or her ideals).

by thinking_of_cowboys@hotmail.com on May 11, 2009

Before my DH and I were even living together (about 6mo into the relationship) or saying I Love You yet, his mom bought me a breast pump!!!!

by RockaBettyKitten on Jul 20, 2009

My future mother in law decided to check out where we will be staying our wedding night, and even called me from the hotel suite to tell us what it looked like!! We will be switching rooms! Luckily my fiance got on the phone and said- gee mom do you think you should get a room next to us in case we need you in the middle of the night (completely sarcastic). She was quite mad but hopefully got put in her place..how wierd!

by mkb004 on Dec 25, 2009

Oh...sounds like my wonderful mother in law. She had all boys too. I have had a few falling outs with my sister in law and guess who was the root of all evil! I think she likes to see us fight. I have just had to separate her from our life.

by shmily78 on Jan 25, 2010

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