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Pregnancy Prep

Thinking about making a baby? The most popular months to deliver are July, August, and September, so if you want to join the throngs of summertime mommies next year, now's the time to get busy. Clearly, a woman can get pregnant without a word of advice, but if you're eager to speed things along, here are a few tips.

Learn your womanly bits
If you paid attention in biology class, you can skip this one. If not, here's a refresher: You have ovaries. Your ovaries contain eggs. Sometime in the midst of your menstrual cycle (on average, around 14 days after your period starts), your ovaries release an egg, which starts a several-day journey toward your uterus (aka womb). If a sperm is hanging around and manages to hook up with the egg, you get pregnant. If not, your body flushes out the egg with a menstrual period. End of lesson. Check out our Ovulation Calculator to see when your chances of getting pregnant are the greatest.

Know your odds
Don't stress if you don't get pregnant right away. After all, you've only got about a 20 percent chance each time you ovulate. (Unless you're a teenager in the backseat of your parents' car. Then we're guessing your odds rise to about 72 percent.) Seriously, you have about a three-day window of fertility each cycle. You have to have sex at just the right time, and the sperm has to swim a long, long way to seal the deal. There's no need to call the doc unless you've been trying to conceive for a year or more (or six months, if you're over 35).

Take your vitamins
It's best to start popping prenatal vitamins at least two months before you start trying, and you should start getting at least 400 mcg of folic acid each day as far as a year or two in advance. When taken before and during the early weeks of pregnancy, folic acid has been shown to greatly decrease the risk of neural tube defects (like spina bifida). You can also find folic acid in foods like spinach, black beans, orange juice, and strawberries.

Get checked out
Sure, you'll be seeing enough of your OB once that test reads positive, but go ahead and schedule your first appointment before you even start trying. This preconception counseling session is a time to discuss nutritional habits and medical history, make sure your immunizations are up to date, and talk to your doc about any factors that could lead to pregnancy complications. (Tip: While you're at it, head to the dentist too--periodontal disease is linked to preterm and underweight babies.)

Do it, already!
Most health care professionals recommend that you have fun and don't worry too much about perfect timing in the first three months of trying. If you're excited to boost your odds, though, here are a few tricks:

  • Sex during the three days before ovulation gives you the best chance of conception. Check your estimated ovulation date on our ovulation calculator.
  • Tilt your pelvis after sex, so that gravity can help the sperm swim towards your cervix.
  • Orgasm. The pulsing that results can also help the sperm swim to its destination. (How this is achieved is, of course, up to you and your partner.)
  • Lose the lube. Most lubricants (including saliva) act as barriers to your man’s little swimmers. If you must have some help, the lubricant Pre-Seed claims to be "sperm friendly," or simply indulge in a little extra foreplay.

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-- Erin Hill

Nov 19, 2008

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NONE OF THIS ADVICE HAS HELPED ME AT ALL. I HABE BEEN TTC WITH MY FIANCE FOR 10 MONTHS. ABOUT 1 WEEK BEFORE MY PERIOD WAS DUE (PERIOD DUE DATE OCT.2.2010) I HAD WEIRD CRAMPING ON MY RIGHT SIDE RIGHT WHERE MY OVARIES ARE AND IT IS NOW OCT.6.2010 AND MY PERIOD IS 4 DAYS LATE!!!! THE LATEST I HAVE EVER BEEN FOR MY PERIOD IS 6 DAYS SO I AM REALLY HOPING I AM PREGNANT!!! I WILL BE 1 MONTH LATE FOR MY PERIOD ON NOVEMBER 2,2010 AND THEN I WILL TAKE A PREGNANCY TEST. WISH ME LUCK AND SEND ME BABY DUST IT HAS BEEN SUCH A STRUGGLE!!!

by guyandmirinda9091 on Oct 05, 2010

NONE OF THIS ADVICE HAS HELPED ME AT ALL. I HABE BEEN TTC WITH MY FIANCE FOR 10 MONTHS. ABOUT 1 WEEK BEFORE MY PERIOD WAS DUE (PERIOD DUE DATE OCT.2.2010) I HAD WEIRD CRAMPING ON MY RIGHT SIDE RIGHT WHERE MY OVARIES ARE AND IT IS NOW OCT.6.2010 AND MY PERIOD IS 4 DAYS LATE!!!! THE LATEST I HAVE EVER BEEN FOR MY PERIOD IS 6 DAYS SO I AM REALLY HOPING I AM PREGNANT!!! I WILL BE 1 MONTH LATE FOR MY PERIOD ON NOVEMBER 2,2010 AND THEN I WILL TAKE A PREGNANCY TEST. WISH ME LUCK AND SEND ME BABY DUST IT HAS BEEN SUCH A STRUGGLE!!! Good luck I hope you get your little blessing!!

by rcnez23 on Oct 17, 2010

Good Luck!! My husband and I just started really trying at the beginning of this month. I am hoping that we too can have a little bundle of joy in our lives sometime soon. I hope that you guys are expecting. Good luck I will be praying for you!!

by MrsWatkins2010 on Oct 24, 2010

It's November 2, 2010 are you preggos @ guyandmirinda9091?

by tiffndaaron on Nov 02, 2010

can some one help me. me and my husband have been ttc for over a year now. i have a irregular period so it is hard to know when i ovulate. so if there is any advice anybody could give us it would be greatly appreciated. THANKS

by mania2311 on Nov 03, 2010

mania2311 - I'm in the same boat as you. My cycle is anywhere from 47 days to 68 days long. The ovulation trackers don't really account for longer cycles. We're just "letting what happens happen" but if it doesn't happen soon, I may start taking my temperature and tracking that.

by leah_johnson on Nov 03, 2010

leah_johnson: well at least i know im not the only one that helps its just hard you know cause i look around and all our friends are getting pregnat or the just had their kids and it seems like they had no problem and i look back and ask why us why me why cant i just be normal. oh and love the last name lol im a johnson too :)

by mania2311 on Nov 04, 2010

i've been using fertilityfriend.com to chart my bbt, cervical position, cervical mucus and opk results. it's a free site. i have also order the opk test strips from amazon for around $10 for 40 strips. I'm not pregnant yet and having only just recently started ttc. but i'm hoping any of this info will help others out there. good luck everyone.

by jessica_kate00 on Nov 16, 2010

i've been using fertilityfriend.com to chart my bbt, cervical position, cervical mucus and opk results. it's a free site. i have also order the opk test strips from amazon for around $10 for 40 strips. I'm not pregnant yet and having only just recently started ttc. but i'm hoping any of this info will help others out there. good luck everyone. (i also have irregular cycles, so...)

by jessica_kate00 on Nov 16, 2010

I wonder if guyandmirinda9091 had a baby???

by vettle on Oct 18, 2011