Have a Little Fun
Don’t just focus on the outcome. Instead, try to enjoy the whole experience. Go for a romantic date or enjoy a bubble bath before getting busy. Remember: Lovemaking should be enjoyable.
Get in the Mood
It can be hard to slip into ultra-seductive mode when you’re on a mission. Try shifting the focus from when it will happen to the fun you get to have when making it happen. Use candles, music, lingerie, dirty talk -- whatever it takes to make sex sexy again.
Keep It Exciting
Making babies can be a fun opportunity to try new positions. That fact alone should keep things hot!
Remember: The more relaxed you are, the more likely you are to orgasm. Besides the obvious benefit, having an orgasm after your husband also does may actually help you conceive (that’s not a deal we’d turn down!).
Don’t Over “Do It”
If these days, it’s a round-the-clock sex fest at your house, come ovulation time, he may be too pooped to perform. We’re certainly not saying you can only get busy during your most fertile days, but it’s not a bad idea to take a break once in a while too.