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My Married Life: Can a 60-Year Age Gap Ever Add Up to a Happy Marriage?

Yep, you guessed it. I'm talking about Hef.

I'll be honest. Morally speaking, I've got no problem with Hugh Hefner. I'm kind of a free-to-be-you-and-me type of gal. Do I love Playboy magazine? No. I have a hard time with tons of plastic surgery and airbrushing, which I feel are a lot more damaging to women than porn. And, yes, I realize that last line will likely inspire angry comments. But hey, I'm just laying it all out there for the people, so fire away.

That said, I do think Hugh Hefner is super-duper gross. And it looks like I'm not alone, according to this New York Times editorial. I guess my disgust stems from reading Bunny Tales by Izabella St. James -- a book that described Hef's sex habits in such lurid detail that they are forever burned into my brain. Two words: baby oil. Another word: ick.

Anyway, he's getting married again, so woohoo. The bride-to-be is 24-year-old Crystal Harris, who was conceived when Hef was 60. Hello! Now, just to play devil's advocate, I'd like to hear from anyone who thinks that a marriage with this big of an age difference can actually really work. My ears are open.

-- Holly

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