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What She's Doing When You're Not Around

You may not want to find out.

Here's my disclaimer: Don't read this post if you're not ready to face a cold, hard fact about the woman you married and what she does when you're not around.

Okay, don't say I didn't warn you. Here it is: Women masturbate. Married women masturbate -- something a buddy of mine (who for obvious reasons will remain anonymous) just discovered after coming home earlier than expected one night and walking in on his wife having a one-person party. I'll give you a hint: There was a mechanical toy involved. Poor guy didn't take it well either, and considering she had turned him down for sex that morning, I guess I could see where he was coming from. But when I told Holly about the situation, she brought up a good point -- it's not like he would think twice about clearing the pipes when his wife wasn't around, and some men would find that sexy. Her other point: Just because his wife wasn't in the mood in the morning, doesn't mean she wasn't later that night when her husband was out. Makes sense to me. But what do you guys think? Do you get offended if your spouse has solo sex occasionally...or a lot?

-- Jack

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