| Something I like to do is tell my wife about any sexual dreams I have that she starred in. She feels super-flattered, and talking about my fantasies gets her to open up about hers. You might be surprised how just talking about sex can get you in the mood -- fast. Plus, who knows? Maybe she'll want to act out one of those dreams, or you can volunteer to bring her thoughts to life. Another quick and easy way to get out of a rut is to revisit your first date or go somewhere you traveled together when things were, well, a little bit sexier between you two. Trust me: A romantic hot spot can do wonders when it comes to rekindling romance and getting things going in bed. | That animalistic attraction you felt for your spouse sadly has an expiration date. But even if the must-have-you-now feelings have faded, the sex can still be amazing. Sounds like it's time to start a new chapter in your sex lives together! Step one: Get yourself in the mood by either investing in sexy lingerie or taking a hot bath (whatever gets you going!). Once you're ready for action, show (don't tell) your spouse how much you want him. If timing's an issue, schedule actual "sex dates" that the two of you can think about all day. Also, switch things up. Try role-playing, sex toys, porn -- whatever. It's all about making each other feel good, so don't be shy! |
So what about you?
How do you keep things hot in the bedroom?
-- The Nest Editors
Oct 16, 2009
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