Hey! I found a great book!!!Read it! "What your Mother never told you about SEX" By Hilda Hutcherson, M.D. by lilyotto on Jul 30, 2009
You thought you knew about sex before...I've seen pretty much ALL these questions addressed in an easy to read, funny, and absolutely mind blowing book called "Holy Sex! A Catholic Guide to Toe-Curling, Mind-Blowing, Infallible Loving by Dr. Gregory Popcak. My Fiance and I are reading it right now, having been recommended to us by several other couples. Priests in some marriage preparation programs are assigning this book to couples. It has something for everyone: married, unmarried or divorced. Even if you're not Catholic, but want the best sex life ever, you should still read this book. It's profound, it's practical, it's the truth (with the support of science every step of the way.) This is a book that our society has been dying for for a very long time. If you are Catholic, it's a no-brainer. Dr. Popcak (pronounced Pop-check) "is the founder/executive director of the Pastoral Solutions Institute, a nationally syndicated talk radio psychotherapist, the author of seven books on marriage and family life, and a regular speaker at workshops on sex and marriage." He know's what he's talking about. Here's a review of the book: http://www.faithfulreader.com/reviews/9780824524715-about.asp I've never read something so moving in my life! by cassi so in love on Nov 18, 2009
You thought you knew about sex before...I've seen pretty much ALL these questions addressed in an easy to read, funny, and absolutely mind blowing book called "Holy Sex! A Catholic Guide to Toe-Curling, Mind-Blowing, Infallible Loving by Dr. Gregory Popcak. My Fiance and I are reading it right now, having been recommended to us by several other couples. Priests in some marriage preparation programs are assigning this book to couples. It has something for everyone: married, unmarried or divorced. Even if you're not Catholic, but want the best sex life ever, you should still read this book. It's profound, it's practical, it's the truth (with the support of science every step of the way.) This is a book that our society has been dying for for a very long time. If you are Catholic, it's a no-brainer. Dr. Popcak (pronounced Pop-check) "is the founder/executive director of the Pastoral Solutions Institute, a nationally syndicated talk radio psychotherapist, the author of seven books on marriage and family life, and a regular speaker at workshops on sex and marriage." He know's what he's talking about. Here's a review of the book: http://www.faithfulreader.com/reviews/9780824524715-about.asp I've never read something so moving in my life! by cassi so in love on Nov 18, 2009
well what you think if your husband or boyfriend doesnt give you a orgasm? then you finsh with you masturbate witha virator after getting done have sex with him is than normal? by bearjen1976@yahoo.com on Dec 21, 2009
my husband is in a wheelchair and doesn't have much use of his legs. are there any other positions we can try besides me on top? we would both like to mix it up a bit but he's rather small, so some more adventurous positions just don't seem to work because he can't stay in. help please! by annaconduh on Jan 11, 2010
About the past experience and not being able to give your husband oral sex.. here's my opinion.. people use past experiences to get sympathy or attention. You have a good husband and a good life now. Quit bringing up the past instead of pleasing your husband now and just having a good life. It's not attractive or sexy. Everyone has had things happen to them in their past. It's your choice to have it ruin your life, and your husband’s life NOW. by NYLAlicia on Mar 13, 2010
The question, "I've been faking orgasms for four years now. Is it wrong?", link leads to a different question. I am very curious what answer you have to that question as I am in the same situation. by bonnymortell on Sep 19, 2010
My fiance love to have ultimate sex with me. He is so crazy over me and my body. Even he used ask me to pee on to his mouth, he says that he loves to drink his wife's urine to show that he loves his future wife so crazily. Is it mentally normal or abnormal or is it some kind of fantasy? Im a bit upset about this. This is new to me. by deepajey on Sep 20, 2010
Right when I get started, he finishes! THen he is done and is too... ? Sensitive?? [I don't know if that is the word] to go for round 2! Help!!! by jarendes21 on Sep 27, 2010
I have a question..So, my husband and I have been married for almost 3 weeks and we've never had sex. We're both virgins and he is wanting to, but I'm too nervous. Before we got married I was really excited about having sex for the first time on our honeymoon, but then a friend of mine told me it was going to hurt really bad the first time. Since then my sisters and mother have told me that it really doesn't hurt, but I can't get it out of my head. On our honeymoon he tried to get me to feel more comfortable with something up in me so he used his finger, and it hurt. I've been afraid of it hurting especially since then so I haven't let my guard down enough to have sex..I don't know what to do anymore. I want to have sex, but I can't get passed this mental block. Any advice? by tastes-like-chicken on Dec 01, 2010
In response to Tastes Like Chicken: It may hurt the first few times but it is so worth it!!! It's a tremendously intimate experience and if you share that with your new husband you should be able to work together to make the best out of the experience until you're completely comfortable and discomfort free. I can promise you it is worth it once you can get past the initial anxiety. It doesn't get much better than sharing that level of intimacy with your husband. Good luck! by ekweir on Dec 01, 2010
This is also for tastes-like-chicken! I am recently married as well and was a virgin on my wedding night. I would recommend starting off slowly with just touching each other and kissing. Explore him and let him do the same with you. I'm sure he will enjoy it. This will turn you on and produce natural lubrication for you, but since it is your first time I would suggest KY Silk or a smooth lubrication. Put it on both of you and make sure to RELAX. You are going to be tight anyways because it is your first time so don't add to it by being tense. I promise, it is very worth it. I would also suggest the book "The Act of Marriage" by Tim & Beverly La Haye. It helped me a lot! Good luck! by kattylou on Dec 10, 2010
This is to taste-like-chicken. I also was a virgin when I got married. Definitely use lube. Also try stretching the vagina with vaginal dilators. They come in sizes that gradually increase in size. Check out vaginismus.com where a medical-grade dilator set can be purchased for $45. This is the site where my gyno stent me when I was having problems. by AandBteam on Dec 31, 2010
to tastes-like-chicken my husband and i were both virgins too when we got married a month ago. it definitely hurt at first, but mostly because i was too stubborn to use lube because i didn't want to say i had to! (silly i know), but if you use lube it helps sooo much! and if you take a break for a day or two after to let yourself heal. we kept having sex because i wanted him to feel pleasure, but i was miserable! finally we took a break for a bit, then the next time i was bracing for the pain and it hardly hurt! you have to just take it slow and use plenty of lubricant. but it is so totally worth it! i promise! by lilikarie on Feb 01, 2011
I love anal sex with my boyfriend, I tried it for the first time a few months ago now I can't get enough of his cock, is that normal? by velo57 on Feb 21, 2011
I could use some help- my husband and I have been married only a handful of days, he was a virgin, I wasn't. Before getting married, he'd get an erection around me all the time. Now that we're married, he'll get something, but not as much as before, and when we go to seal the deal, he loses whatever he got. He's becoming upset and depressed, and I'm trying to be comforting and understanding, but also feeling deprived. What could be the prob and what can we do to fix it? by klm1387 on Mar 16, 2011
This seems weird, but what do i do if my husband takes foreeeeever to climax during sex? After about 30 min, i'm tired, it hurts, but i don't want to stop until he has fun. What gives? How do we speed things up so i'm not so sore from going soo long? by alwyssmiley on Apr 04, 2011
I swim at my professors home about once a week. Ive been doing this for about a half year. They are a really nice older couple and I feel very comfortable there. The past few times thye have joked/suggested that I just swim natural (no suit). It seems somewhat weird and maybe wrong, but that being said it is something I really want to do after thinking about it. Just wanted to get some anonymous opinions on this. Thanks by katy777katy on Apr 11, 2011
Katty777, If you are very comfortable with your professors, then do it. They are the ones suggesting it so it won't be wrong or out of place. If they are truly friends, then it shouldn't matter what you wear, or don't wear. Are they there watching you or are you pretty much alone in their pool? Maybe take her aside and ask her what exactly she means by swimming nude? I'm sure they do it when you are not there and its probably not a big deal. What is the age difference between you and them? E-mail me if you want at: hunter8768@yahoo.com I'd like to hear more details about this. It is very intriguing to me. by hunter8768 on Apr 19, 2011
hunter: are you insane? how could you give katy this kind of advice? katy, please do not listen to hunter, or email her/him. this advice is so off the mark, i am worried about the true identity of hunter - and you should be too. your professor and his wife should NOT be suggesting you swim naked in their pool, joking or not, period. in fact, you should tell your parents, or the school, about this. and STOP going to their home, nevermind swimming. their behavior is not okay. by kimmygirl123 on May 04, 2011
Why do men like it "doggy-style"? what should I do to make this position more comfortable for me? by maytorres84 on Jun 12, 2011
One of the questions here is about watching porn. Sometimes me and my wife watch wow porn in order to set things on fire and also for inspiration. There is always something new you can try. Anyways, this works for me and my wife. I recommend it, but it depends on your style. by doctorjekyl on Jul 03, 2011
My wife and I found this great game. https://www.thegamecrafter.com/games/the-sex-question-game Its fun and entertaining and has a ton of questions. by ptbenjamin on Jan 27, 2012
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