I think that this answer is shying away from the fact that some men just don't find pregnant women to be attractive. What do you do then?

This topic actually inspired me to sign up for this site. I am one who DOES find pregnant women attractive. I had a co-worker who's wife I never gave a second look to, just kind of plain looking and a attitude (which is a bigger turn off). I was visiting them one day and couldn't keep my eyes off her. I later asked him if she was pregnant. He say's "yes, how'd you know?". I could just tell. But to say a man should have to be intimate when she is pregnant is like saying she has to be intimate when she is pregnant, even is she doesn't want to or feel like it.

I don't see how guys have a problem with this. My wife is pregnant for a second time and while sure her body isn't skinny like it was, she's still beautiful an I would gladly have sex anytime with her! I think pregnant women can be gorgeous, but it comes down to you OWNING it. If you feel you are still beautiful, we can tell!

I will say... after around 6 months or so, sex gets akward... and a lot of guys think silly things like "I don't want to poke the baby"... guys... its not going to happen... find new ways to lay, let your guy know that he's not going to hurt you OR the baby... maybe he's just worried ??

I don't think ur wrong to expect sex. My husband is having the same issues and it's just annoying. Coppertop412, I have sex ALL THE TIME with my husband when I don't feel like it because I feel it's one of my marital responsibilities. In fact, he has rejected me so many more times than I ever have him. He has to be in the mood, he can't be too tired or certain things don't work, etc., etc. (But look out when he is in the mood as no peace can be found until that is taken care of...) And to add insult to injury, since I've been pregnant he looks at porn on the internet instead of having sex with me. He's the one that wanted to be pregnant--not that I don't--but I am suffering--literally--all of the consequences. Some guys don't find pregnant women attractive--not saying this is ur husband and I wouldn't call him an a**hole just because he doesn't feel like having sex even if it is that reason...that's just the way it is for some men and I don't think it's controllable. Mine is afraid of sooooo many things and he is a stubborn man so every doctor in the world could say it's perfectly safe and he wouldn't care. I find it selfish--very, very selfish, but then, that is my husband, too and I knew that before I married him. So, maybe ur husband has some fears, too--guys aren't so in to sharing their feelings, you know? My best advice--take matters in to ur own hands--again, literally--and enjoy.