I'm not so into vibrators; are there any other toys I can try out in the bedroom?
Absolutely. A great place to start is GoodVibes.com. Better yet, bring your partner in on the action and pick out one online together. Toys range from massage accessories to "vanilla" bondage items to little finger- and tongue-shaped buzzers. Don’t forget: You don’t have to buy bright purple penis-shaped ones that put many men (and women!) off.
Nestpert Dr. Pam Spurr, author of Make Love All Night & Talk to Him in the Morning and Naughty Tricks and Sexy Tips: A Couple's Guide to Uninhibited Sexual Pleasure
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