I think too, I personally don't mind being on top but it's hard when I'm having body issues, and the questions seems to lack of difficulty on the excersize aspect or the self image of it, it's important from the self image aspect to find lingere that really works for your body, what flatters your shape, what colors flatter you, do you look good in candlelight, and don't shop because something happens to be on sale, really make a purchase because it looks amazing, and when you feel you look good the stamina comes more naturally!

I feel the same way because im heavier than my husband and he likes me on top but i have grown to love myself and if i love myself then he will too. It did take me 6 years to get to that kind of thinking. Mallorie Hardin, IN

this is something i'm worried about. Im getting married and when the time comes to finally have sex and try things, when i go to be ontop im afraid i'll crush him. but i like the last sentence that they like what they see, they love us, they wouldnt marry us if they didnt think we were beautiful so this helped alot