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Sex Q&A: Feeling Comfortable on Top?

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The Nest Q&AI'm heavier than my husband, and I find it quite difficult to be on top of him during intercourse. This, however, is the position he prefers. Is there anything I can do to make being on top easier and more enjoyable for me?

A.

For starters, it's great that your husband likes to have you on top. Why? Well, more women find that reaching climax is easier on top than in any other position. Now it's time to get comfortable! When it comes time for you to get on top, tell him you want to take your time, and then slip some comfy cushions underneath your knees, elbows, or wherever else you find that it gets uncomfortable. If you're self-conscious because his eyes are on you up there, get over it! Clearly he likes what he's seeing (and feeling), and you're not going to crush him.    

Nestpert Dr. Pam Spurr, author of Make Love All Night & Talk to Him in the Morning and Naughty Tricks and Sexy Tips: A Couple's Guide to Uninhibited Sexual Pleasure

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VincesMariposa
I think too, I personally don't mind being on top but it's hard when I'm having body issues, and the questions seems to lack of difficulty on the excersize aspect or the self image of it, it's important from the self image aspect to find lingere that really works for your body, what flatters your shape, what colors flatter you, do you look good in candlelight, and don't shop because something happens to be on sale, really make a purchase because it looks amazing, and when you feel you look good the stamina comes more naturally!

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