Q.
My husband is disabled, which makes it difficult to vary our sex routine. His disability affects his arms and legs, so he can't do any of the typical male-dominant positions or stand up for long periods. Any suggestions for positions that are more female-dominant?
A.
Kudos for trying to work
this out. Many people, when faced with a hurdle
in the bedroom, simply give up. Know that you’re already
doing the most important thing by staying connected
with him as a lover
. Try the “reverse missionary” where you lie on
top of him with his legs between yours, or the “cowgirl” position where you’re
kneeling above him -- this also gives him great access
to your breasts. Or try the “spinner”: Get in the cowgirl position and turn 180 degrees so you’re straddling him and facing
his feet. This way, he can enjoy caressing
your tush during sex.
Nestpert Dr. Pam Spurr, author of Make Love All Night & Talk to Him in the Morning and Naughty Tricks and Sexy Tips: A Couple's Guide to Uninhibited Sexual Pleasure -- The Nest Editors
Feb 24, 2009
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