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Sex Q&A: What Can I Do to Entice My Husband?

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The Nest Q&AMy husband gives me oral sex...begrudgingly. What can I do to entice him?

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Sometimes men worry about the taste. Invite him in for a sensual shower where you both feel super clean, and then towel each other dry. Encourage him to nuzzle your tummy and between your thighs first as a warm-up. Keep well-trimmed and waxed so he can see what he's doing! If his technique isn't exactly to your liking, gently coax him to perform to your specifications by saying things like, "That feels great," or "I'd love it if you could…" When he does something right, be vocal! A little positive reinforcement can go a long way to getting him more enthused.

Nestpert Dr. Pam Spurr, author of Make Love All Night & Talk to Him in the Morning and Naughty Tricks and Sexy Tips: A Couple's Guide to Uninhibited Sexual Pleasure

-- The Nest Editors

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