Tarzan + Tarzan
Before: The two of you swing from position to position so often, it's rare that you have a tender moment during sex. Sure, you always have fun, but where's the romance?
After: Spend time just thinking about sex (okay, you can eventually get busy, just not right this second). As you play out a steamy sex scene in your head, picture your partner -- not yourself -- so the next time you do it, you're more focused on him or her.
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