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Changing Your Name Checklist

Legally changing your name may sound like a snore, but if you do it in the first few months of marriage, it'll make life a lot easier.

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Legally changing your name may sound like a snore, but if you do it in the first few months of marriage, it'll make life a lot easier.

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For Starters
Check with your county clerk to find out name-change guidelines before the wedding. Some places require you to list your new name (maiden, hyphen, or hybrid) when you apply for your marriage license, and others allow you to submit a change with the Social Security office or DMV after you’re married.
Also make sure that your wedding officiant mails in your signed marriage license ASAP so you receive your marriage certificate. You’ll need this certificate (or in some cases, a copy of it) to apply for a name change.

For Your Wallet

  • Change your bank account and order new checks. (Download our Merge Your Money Checklist for more great tips on how to meld your accounts.)
  • Change your credit cards (even ones from retail stores).
  • Update any stocks, IRAs, mortgages, leases, or money market accounts.
  • Order an annual credit report to make sure all old accounts are closed -- and that no one is opening accounts using your maiden name. Go to AnnualCreditReport.com.

For "The Man"

  • Get a new Social Security card (you’ll need your marriage certificate). Go to SocialSecurity.gov.
  • Get a new driver’s license (you’ll need to bring your new SS card and marriage certificate).
  • Mail in your passport (with a new photo) for an updated one. Go to Travel.State.gov/passport.
  • Alert voter registration at DeclareYourself.org. Click “Register to Vote” and then check the box that says you're changing your name.

For Work & Home

  • Change HR paperwork at your office, get a new email address, and alert your contacts of the change.
  • Update insurance cards and policies -- download our Insurance Inventory Checklist
  • Change your name on utility bills, like cable, gas, and your cell phone.
  • Contact alumni associations, gyms, and other organizations you belong to.

-- The Nest Editors

May 26, 2009

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Very Informative, helpful and convenient. This information helped me out a lot! Thank you!!

by nee-nee0708 on Jul 21, 2009

Thank you so much for this!!! I didnt realize how much I have left to get done!

by Jeehan on Jan 12, 2010

great stress eliminator for the future..

by mabolt on Jun 04, 2010

Thank you for this! I didn't realize how much work we have to get done for this.

by burcher2 on Aug 06, 2010

I would just add something for students, on how to change it at school, etc. That's been the hardest part for me so far!

by jesuslovingchik on Aug 24, 2010

I have an even easier way to deal with all of this--- don't change your name. What if you husband really wants you to? Show him this NYTimes article that shows women end up losing money and get less respect when they do change their names: http://economix.blogs.nytimes.com/2010/04/14/women-work-and-a-name-change/ If he's still really hot and heavy on you both having the same name-- have him change his.

by susanmarie66 on Sep 12, 2010