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So you've finally joined your pads together. What's next? Well, it's about time to figure out all the details when combining your dough.

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So you've finally joined your pads together. What's next? Well, it's about time to figure out all the details when combining your dough. Use this checklist to sort out all the specifics.

Click here to download the PDF file

Checking
Start by listing out all current checking accounts with balances to determine which ones (if any) you’d like to merge into one account.

If You Decide to Merge Accounts:

  • Transfer any automatic payments from canceled account to new account
  • Visit bank office to cancel one account and add spouse to other account
  • Order new checks with joint account information

If You Decide to Keep Separate Accounts:

  • Decide if you want to allow each other access to both accounts
  • Visit the bank office to add each other to your accounts
  • Switch any automatic payments that need to be rerouted

Savings & Investments
Start by listing out all current accounts with balances and decide whether to merge accounts or allow joint access.

If You Decide to Merge Accounts:

  • Visit bank office to set up any new access or accounts
  • Contemplate new investments

If You Decide to Keep Separate Accounts:

  • Look over your retirement accounts together, even though you won't be able to merge them
  • Change any beneficiary information to your spouse

Credit Cards
List all credit cards and balances and decide which cards you’d like to keep. Also, decide if you want to add each other on as designated users of each other’s cards.

If You Decide to Get a Card for Joint Purchases:

  • Open a new account
  • Decide on parameters for purchases
  • Set up a schedule for paying bills

Insurance

Car

  • Pick the better car insurance plan and adjust your rate for a married couple

Health

  • Compare health insurance plans and choose the better option

Life

  • Decide how much life insurance you need and purchase a plan
  • Insure your home/belongings as a married couple
  • Investigate long-term care insurance policies
  • Change any beneficiary information to your spouse

Loans

  • List all student loans, car loans, mortgages, and other liabilities
  • Talk to lending institutions about consolidating payments
  • Discuss adding each other to the titles of cars, property, and other assets

Services

  • Compare cell phone plans and pick your provider
  • If you have two Internet service accounts, see how much you'd save if you combined
  • Get rid of any duplicate accounts for cable, phone, etc.
  • If you belong to different gyms, see if one offers a joint rate

-- The Nest Editors

May 27, 2009

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This looks great if both spouses make around the same amount of money, but what if one spouse makes significantly more than the other? How fair would it be to pool money & debt together if one spouse will be stuck paying such a substantial portion of it? Does anyone know how to create a fair budget for couples with totally different incomes?

by ninaacevedo on Jan 28, 2010

I have no debt and my wife has about 35K in debt. My philosophy is that her debt is my debt, and we will work together to pay it off. I won't own more of the house than her that we will buy someday...that reasoning doesn't really make sense from the perspective of a married couple.

by TeamForager on Mar 13, 2010

I am in the same situation and it doesn't seem fair to pool the money & debt. I would be interested in a 'fair' budget also. I make nearly twice as much if not more then my husband.

by ladeeempress on Apr 27, 2010

That's the completely wrong attitude to have about your partners debt and salary. You to are together now so that means you share everything. I mean I can understand having a separate savings account maybe but you both spend the money and you both have to share the bills. It's only fair that of course you pay more bills with your salary because you make more. what do you want to give your husband an allowance everymonth?

by lbmwed on May 01, 2010

We split our joint expenses in the same proportion as our salaries. That is my income is about 60% of our joint income so i pay 60% of our joint expenses. So far that's working for us but we will tweak it if necessary.

by audrieandhanif on Jun 03, 2010

we pool our income and debt and look at it as if it is 'ours'. We figure out a budget based on our bills: house, food, electric, water, cars, debt, and we each get the same amount of'blow' money each month. Just because my income is at a different level than his, doesn't mean he doesn't work just as hard as I do. his blow money shouldn't be more or less than mine just because of his career choice. We are in an equal partnership and that goes for money, paying off debt, ownership of property, fun money, and chores.

by korielynn on Jun 28, 2010

anybody else having trouble downloading the Merge-Your-Money checklist .PDF?

by boorad99 on Jul 15, 2010

When "two become one", that means in EVERY aspect. We decided early on that we would tackle our debt TOGETHER, regardless of whose it was. That makes us a team, and our money is truly OUR money. :0)

by lesa.close@gmail.com on Jul 21, 2010

anybody else having trouble downloading the Merge-Your-Money checklist .PDF?

by boorad99 on Jul 28, 2010

anybody else having trouble downloading the Merge-Your-Money checklist .PDF?

by boorad99 on Jul 28, 2010

I was able to download the .pdf ok.

by TeresaNChris on Aug 02, 2010

@ninaacevedo It shouldn't matter if spouses make different amounts. You need to start budgeting as a married couple and not think so selfishly. It's no longer about "splitting bills" like dating couples. If you chose to combine finances, start thinking differently...

by colleenrkay on Aug 18, 2010

ultimately it is an agreement between you & your partner & what you feel comfortable with, married or not. My FI & I have joint checking & savings accounts along with our own. A certain % of our income goes to our joint vs individ accounts. Items are divided as joint (rent, food) or individ (car, loans) expense.

by genepoolperfect on Sep 26, 2010

It's important to remember that you and your spouse are on the same team. If one spouse has a lot of debt that he/she can't pay off, that's bad for the team. If one spouse spends too much on frivolous purchases, that's also bad for the team. It's all about communication and figuring out what is the best for your future TOGETHER. PS I have more debt, but I also earn more, so I figure it works out even ;)

by MeganGrace1983 on Feb 19, 2011

My FI makes more than me, but we just pool our money together in a joint account and pay for EVERYTHING together out of that account. Im the one who controls the finances, because Im better with money (im in the financial field). He has debt and I dont, but both our cars, insurance, debt, mortgage, etc gets paid from both our salaries pooled together. Were about to be married. I feel like it doesnt matter who makes what, we are about to combine our lives. It makes sense to also do that financially.

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