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Pets and Couples: How Does Your Furbaby Affect Your Relationship?

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Most people who’ve added a furry friend as their plus-one can vouch that they love sharing a pet together and their pet adds happiness to their relationship. Don’t believe them? A study of 240 couples by the University at Buffalo found that those who take care of cats or dogs “have closer relationships, are more satisfied in marriage, and respond better to stress than couples who do not.”

Pet-owning couples had overall lower baseline blood pressure and were able to more quickly lower their blood pressure in stressful situations than petless couples. The study also found that couples with pets socialized more in general -- including with each other (which other research has shown aids heart health). "We don't know specifically why this is so,” said research scientist Karen Allen, the author of the study. “Pet owners may be the kind of people who inherently seek out more social contact. On the other hand, there may be something in the relationship between people and pets that enhances social interaction.”

Nesties, what do you think? Has your furbaby improved your family’s nest?

-- Colleen Canney

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Yes, our pet deffinalty effeted my relationship, she was the first thing we were responsible for together. Meaning we had to work our schedules and make sure that someone was home, or got home in time to take care her! Plus, she took care of us. I think she knows us better than we know eachother!

by together4ever on Nov 17, 2009

I agree, having a pet (or pets, in our case) together has definitely strengthened our relationship. Having something we're responsible for together is part of it (think bathing the dog, grooming the cats, etc), and they make times when one of us is super busy less lonely. Plus, with four cats and a neurotic dog in the house, there's never a dull moment!

by yarncarchick on Nov 17, 2009

We just took on another dog. We now have 2 dogs living with us, one is 1 1/2 and the other is 2. It's a lot of fun. I can already tell a difference in our marriage. It seems like we have so much to do and it keeps us both so busy. It's great. I love our life together! :) I always did, but I think the dogs really helped.

by JenAbeler on Nov 23, 2009

Having dogs has been wonderful for our relationship! We got the first one a year after we started dating, and the other about a year after that. We each kept one when we lived apart, but since they now live together since we've gotten married, I can't imagine they'd survive without each other, nor we without them! They are our children: a Black Lab and a Black & Tan Coonhound, both females and sweethearts! There have only been conflicts involving sharing duties like taking them out, cleaning up after taking them outside, etc. since we live in the city, but they have been insignificant since we know these duties are small matters in relation to having kids someday!

by trsmith6 on Jan 16, 2010

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